Ted H. Rozkuszka, 85, passed away in hospital on June 30, 2024.
Ted and his legacy of activism and charity were celebrated on Sunday, September 29, 2024, at Avogadro’s Number in Fort Collins. The day began with a traditional memorial, followed by “Progress 2025,” a political education event with live music and guest speakers addressing the dangers of Project 2025.
It feels impossible to describe a horse of so many colors in short form. Ted’s biography had ordinary elements, one wife, one child, one long held civil service job, but to those who knew and loved him, he was a man of incredible breadth and generosity.
Ted spent his childhood playing baseball and roving the Chicago streets with friends. His teens and youthful summers were spent working odd jobs, watching live blues, and taking road trips to fish in Wisconsin. Fascinated with the expanse of the American West, he set off at age 18 for Logan, Utah. The red canyons of Utah sparked his fascination with geology. He sketched rock formations and local flora as a pastime, emerging from USU with a degree in political science with a concentration in wildlife management.
A desire to see the world prompted him to join the army in 1962. Ted served in the regular army from 1962 to 1965, and again in the reserves until 1968. His station in Germany gave him access to Europe’s museums and castles. In fact, a trip to Heidelberg introduced him to a Dutch language student named Foek, aka Fiona; a campaign of courtship letters ensued. Fiona moved to the United States, eventually joining Ted in Chicago, as he was applying for federal jobs that might take him back to wide open spaces. Fort Collins, Colorado, offered postal service and treasury department opportunities, and so they moved. The city kid in Ted’s heart was taken with the idea that a regular guy could simply buy land out there, and so he did. Ted and Fiona married, had a baby, and moved their trailer to the plot where Ted would help build their future home.
The ensuing decades followed the plot of the working Dad. Nine-to-fives for the federal government, except where field work allowed for sleeping in and working past dark. He served as a Treasury union steward. Ted bought horses. (Daughters love horses, right?) Well, it was Ted who loved them most, as he evolved into some sort of modern cowboy. Baling hay, trimming hooves, caring for his beloved Appaloosas and Spanish Mustangs. Weekends were spent horsing around, hunting for petrified wood and fossils around Colorado and Wyoming, or running errands with his biggest fan and sidekick, his young daughter. By night the house filled with the sounds of the lapidary saw and grinding wheel, or foreign films and PBS on the television. Summers were spent much the same way, unless the family went to stay in Holland, or unless they drove the interminable stretch of burning hot highway back to Chicago, gallons of water and engine coolant on hand, in case of inevitable station wagon breakdowns.
What will be missed about Ted? The reliability, the humor, the devotion to goodness, but most of all, the conversations. Anyone could talk to Ted about anything. He offered advice, but never with too heavy a hand. A beer on a patio might find him talking politics or telling stories, which usually led to his open-mouthed laugh and smile.
Existential conversations with his then-adult daughter Soraya would reveal that Ted’s biggest goal in life was to be a better person in his 40s than he had been in his 30s, better still in his 50s, and so on. It was this commitment to improving the self and the world that made Ted his daughter’s hero. Life was not without its challenges, however. For years, Fiona struggled with undiagnosed OCD, at a time when doctors had no name for the disorder. The family swirled in the uncertainty, until finally, a diagnosis led to the kind of actionable problem solving that Ted could get behind. He vowed to do better and be more supportive, and he was. Ted and Fiona grew into old age together as constant companions, rarely even going to a grocery store without each other.
A family trip to Lake Powell in the late 80s led to another medical mystery: heart arrhythmias, which were found to be caused by a birth defect in his heart. Surgery. Recovery. Optimism. Renewed goals to be better, read more, learn more, travel more, give more, live more. Which he did.
But a few years later, the need for another surgery slowed Ted down and forced him to shift from weekend rancher and golfer to a more sedentary way. It may have slowed his body, but it did not slow his mind. He just read more books about science and culture, watched more documentaries about history and discovery, and wrote more little checks to over a hundred charities.
To see his check registers after he passed was a marvel to his family. We knew he stayed up late reading brochures and magazines from his causes, but to see a register of 25 checks where 4 were bills and 21 were sending off $20 here and $50 there to charitable causes, it was more than any of us ever realized. Native American schools, clinics, and elder homes. Civil rights. Women’s rights. Wild horses. Veterans. Democratic candidates. The environment. The blind. Disease research. He had a late-night sit-down for this purpose, weekly at least, for no less than forty years. Ted’s tax guy said he’d never seen anything like it. There was no bragging, no obvious sign that giving was more than a logical duty for anyone with the means. And this, from a frugal guy who bought his post-retirement threads at thrift stores and fixed everything with duct tape.
The retirement years, while less action-packed, gave Ted one new sacred purpose; the birth of a grandson he adored. They did Grandpa things: the playground, the library, fishing. Eventually talking about college and the future, going to concerts, a Bernie rally, even sharing that first 21st birthday brewpub experience. The closeness between Thaddeus and Ted was apparent.
This last Spring, when Ted could tell that his health and even his excellent mind were failing him, he expressed a wish that he wanted to make it to October, to receive his ballot. (Though he quipped that he might not want to make it to Election Day, lest the results be utterly fascist.) Ted did not make it to ballot season, urging his family all the while to do their tiny part in the event that he could not.
In this spirit, Ted’s celebration of life (date TBA, September) will include a progressive voter enrichment aspect.
Ted was preceded in death by his parents, Ted and Olga, and sister Carol Floreth. He is survived by his wife Fiona, daughter Soraya, grandson Thaddeus, sister Barbara Blue, brother David, Carol’s children Valerie, Mike, and Tim, Barbara’s children Kathleen and Scott, and scores of in-laws in The Netherlands.
In lieu of flowers, please consider donating in Ted’s name / memory to Soaring Eagle Heritage Living Center or the Southern Poverty Law Center. Other favorite charities, should you care to pick up where Ted left off with a one-time or recurring donation, include ACLU of Colorado, Native American Rights Fund, Public Citizen, Common Cause Education Fund, and the Food Bank of Larimer County.
My heart holds your heart tight, hold on to Minnie and T…
I never got to meet Ted, but I knew him, and I thank you for sharing him… Even now. May we all want to keep doing better, like Ted. 🙏🏼
Remember how much love you have had and will carry your whole life.. . What a blessing 💙
Wow! What an amazing man. And my sister in law worked at the Southern Poverty Law Center for years! She’s now in DC doing more justice work.
You had a blessed being in this man. May he rest in peace.
Saja
What a beautiful tribute to a beautiful man.
Soraya this is a beautiful testimonial of the love you and your Pa shared! Written from the heart with respect touching on Ted’s many talents and accomplishments. What a fabulous pair you made. I’m so sorry for the lost of your dear Ted.
A beautiful tribute to an amazing man. I’m not sure looking forward to the Celebration of Life is the right phrase but I know it will be perfect. ❤️
We are so sorry for your loss of such a Wonderful Father & Friend. You are all in our prayers. Ben & Sis
Beautiful tribute to Ted! I remember how we would meet during Covid in the parking lot of P.F. Chang’s for you to pick up some Home Cooked foods from my kitchen for the week ahead for them. ♥️♥️♥️. Your stories made My heart full, Deep and Rich in their description, of him …. Your humor, and your absolute love
My heart goes out to you at this time of great loss. Such a beautiful story about Uncle Ted & many things I never knew about him. I’m sorry I didn’t get to see him since our last meeting in Tampa several years ago. Love, hugs, and prayers to you, your mom, and Thaddeus.
I’m so sorry for your loss, Soraya. Thank you for sharing his story with me. What a legacy he has left for you and your son. You and your family are in my prayers.
Loving Family and Friends of Ted,
I’m not sure I was ever to express how lucky I was to have an uncle and godfather like Ted. My early memories of the man were of him sending us cowboy-like belt buckles made from geodes and then him taking us riding on his ranch surrounded by the lovely Rockies. For a midwestern boy I was hooked after that and always loved
dreaming of going back to the Rockies!
Fast forward to being an adult and realizing Ted was my generation above doppelgänger since I took after my mom’s side of the family. He always did little things that a busy young man may not always have appreciated but I did. As a godfather, he always shared his views of the world, investing, and some family history when asked.
Most importantly from him I learned how to be jolly and selfless, to follow the beat of your own drum and seek out your personal journey in this world, and to care for your partner and family without asking for anything in return. I am eternally grateful for this and more and eternally gratefull for his enduring love and support to Fiona, Soraya, and Thaddeus.
Our condolences on your loss and may he forever be in your hearts,
Love/Liefde/Amor, Nephew and Godson, Tim
I remember meeting him on the ‘pirate’ ship in San Diego…I am sorry for your loss
I feel as though I know him so much more after reading your beautiful, heartfelt words.
Love,
Jim
I’ll miss Ted’s wry smile and sly humor, the throaty roar of his storytelling,
and the sturdiness of his heavy handshakes. So sad he had to go — he was loved.
-Mattd.