Donna Lee Jeffers Abernathy passed away peacefully on January 7, 2020, surrounded by her family. She was born October 6, 1952 in Salem, NJ to parents Ina Elwanda Pate and Paul Johnson Jeffers Jr. She grew up in Pennsville, NJ.

From the beginning she had a zest for life and an unquenchable thirst for adventure, participating in student council, homecoming court, as well as editing and writing for her high school magazine. She dominated JV hockey, basketball, cheerleading, and glee club. After high school she received her bachelor’s degree in Journalism to pursue her love of writing; she had a sharp wit and an even sharper pen. She went on to travel the world, teaching English in Taiwan, exploring Europe, and touching the lives and hearts of many. Donna received her Master of Business at the University of Texas, where she met the love of her life, Stephen Abernathy, and they married shortly thereafter. 

She conquered breast cancer while working full time and raising 2 daughters. Her work in IT as a project manager let her travel to almost every continent and ultimately sent her to Colorado, which she called home for 18 years. She was self-taught in Mandarin, Spanish and French. Her self-reliance, selflessness, and wisdom were an inspiration to many. She wrote, read, danced, and traveled; she lived with such joie de vivre that left many in awe. Her life may have been shortened by her battle with thyroid cancer, but she filled many lifetimes into it. Her family and friends will miss her dearly.

Donna is survived by her spouse, Stephen Wayne Abernathy and her daughters, Nicole Abernathy Golob and Julie Anne Abernathy as well as her brothers, Thomas Edward Jeffers and Robert Alan Jeffers and their families. A virtual memorial service was held on January 16th. For more information go to

Follow this link to see a tribute video created by Julie Abernathy

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  1. I knew Donna for a brief time, many years ago, around 1989-1990, sharing an apartment for a summer. She was so kind, smart and funny. A wonderful human. Condolences to all who loved her.

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